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The only issue was, Pompeo found the subject matter anxiety-inducing—unlike Rhimes, a self-professed scripted-surgery addict.
“I don’t particularly like medical shows at all,” Pompeo told Parade in 2013. “I never have. The show that was really big at the time for my generation—before I started Grey’s — was ER. That was on forever, but I’ve never seen one episode!” (Nor, as she told The Hollywood Reporter, did she want “to be stuck on a medical show for five years.”)
But after meeting Rhimes, she told EW, “It was like, ‘I want to do the show.’”
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Rob Lowe Literally Could Have Been McDreamy
Lowe quipped, “My picker was awesome!” But really, the West Wing alum explained, he “just had a better meeting with CBS” and he went with “vibe over the script.”
But you can’t argue with science, Pompeo saying, per Rice, that she read with five potential McDreamys and “it was quite obvious right off the bat that Patrick and I had the best chemistry.”
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There Were Complications Naming the Show
Buchman said he couldn’t remember “who made the call to go back to Grey’s Anatomy.”
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Production Was Halted After One Episode
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The Truth About the Grey’s Anatomy Theme Song
Bandmate Carim Clasmann told Shondaland in 2024 that they had no inkling at the time of what it meant to have Grey’s use their song, “because in our little bubble making music, we didn’t quite appreciate what was going on all around.”
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The Real-Life Seattle Grace
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Hair & Makeup & Scrubs
And scrubs are “totally ill-fitting,” Melgaard noted, so they had to be altered to look natural but not unflattering “within the reality of the show.”
Makeup director Norman Leavitt also took an oath to “do no harm,” he told Rice. Producer Horton “wanted everybody to look, like, rough and ready,” he explained, ” to try to keep them looking real,” but Rhimes, ABC, et al. “wanted a little more glamour.”
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Shonda Rhimes Thought the Isaiah Washington Scandal Would Be Terminal
She added, “Every Grey’s actor I talk to who was there during that time is still traumatized by that incident. People still talk about it.”
At the time, after initially trying to explain he hadn’t meant the word in an anti-gay way, Washington apologized. After uttering the word again backstage at the 2007 Golden Globes, he issued another statement saying, “I know a mere apology will not end this, and I intend to let my future actions prove my sincerity.”
But plot authenticity trumped any old bad blood. The erstwhile Dr. Preston Burke credited Sandra Oh for his reappearance on Grey’s in 2014 ahead of Dr. Cristina Yang’s exit, writing on X in April, “She refused to leave the show without my return and she won that battle.”
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Katherine Heigl’s Dr. Izzie Stevens Was Almost Killed Off
“At the end of the day, there were three choices,” showrunner Krista Vernoff told TVLine in 2020. “Kill Alex off camera, have Alex be alive and in Seattle—and still married to Jo [Camilla Luddington]— and we just never see him, or [he’s] with Izzie.”
Ultimately “this wasn’t even a debate in the writers room,” Vernoff said, giving Alex life and Jo a fresh start “was so clearly the right course.”
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Katherine Heigl Backlash Postmortem
Therapy helped because, Heigl explained, “I don’t want to compromise who I am and what I have to say so much that I go to bed going, ‘I’ve just become a robot, now I just do what they tell me to and say what they want me to say.’”
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Hindsight Is 20/20
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Pulling the Plug on McDreamy
Per How to Save a Life, tensions were high between Dempsey, Rhimes and cast members who, according to former executive producer James D. Parriott, “had all sorts of PTSD with him.” But by then, Parriott said, Dempsey “was just done with the show.”
Pompeo “would get angry that he wasn’t working as much,” former executive producer Jeannine Renshaw said, per Rice’s book. “She was very big on having things be fair.”
Any alleged wounds were salved enough to welcome Dempsey back to be in comatose Meredith’s dream in season 17.
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Scrubbing In Again and Again
“The show was streamed more than a billion times in 2024,” she explained. “The companies that own the show and stream the show make a lot of money from our images and our voices and our faces. If I were to walk away completely, everybody gets to make money from my hard work for 20 years and I wouldn’t make any money…And emotionally, the show means a lot to people. I want to have an attitude of gratitude toward the show.”
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How Ellen Pompeo Earned Her Massive Paycheck
No longer having him on the show meant his popular character’s presence couldn’t be leveraged against hers. And with Rhimes’ various mega-deals as inspiration, Pompeo aimed higher and went after what she felt she deserved.
“When your face and your voice have been part of something that’s generated $3 billion for one of the biggest corporations in the world,” she told THR in 2018, “you start to feel like, ‘OK, maybe I do deserve a piece of this.’”
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Chandra Wilson Thought She’d Be One and Done
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Ripped From the Headlines
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Hands-On Experience
“Being a doctor is the hardest thing you can do,” she told Parade. “Twelve years of school, the pharmaceutical knowledge, the body parts, the Latin terminology, the memory retention you have to have. Doctors are serious rock stars, so I wouldn’t pretend to know even a tenth of what they know.”